About Lovism

Lovism is a mutual conversation by and for both sexes, meant to replace the current hostility and competitive antagonism that extremists have created between men and women.

By adopting unfounded and rigid perspectives, feminism has excluded ordinary men from all discussions about the relations between the sexes, while drifting further and further away from the wishes and dreams of most women. After feminism has implemented its separatist-antagonistic approach, in response to this self-centeredness and its impact, men’s groups, while bringing to light men’s issues, imitated the feminist separatism thereby fostering a similar reclusive attitude. The result, in which we all live today, is a divorce between the sexes.

All along, what women and men were looking for was not conflict, but a shared, mutual discussion, for both of them, in which they could talk to one another. Not through blaming, intimidation and fear as offered by feminism, but in mutual understanding and empathy. This is what Lovism is: A philosophy of equality for both sexes, which is based on conversation rather than on confrontation, to replace the feminist dialect of intimidation and fear with a language of love.

Lovism is a name for applying the general principles of humanism to the relations between the sexes. Its introduction is motivated by the fact that humanism was formulated for the relations between the individual and the state, while leaving a gap in the personal side of human relations. This gap was tragically filled with women’s separatism (called Feminism) to be later ensued by men’s separatism in response to the female one. However, separatism is the splitting of humanity into “us” and “them”, which inevitably leads to supremacism of “us” vs. demonization of “them”. Both the female and male separatism phenomena were an ill response to the gap in humanism, causing the competitive hostility surrounding us today. Instead, the gap in humanism should have been addressed in the first place with a mutual perspective about the personal relations between the sexes. This is what the concept and term Lovism stands for and constitutes, to replace both separatist approaches with mutual understanding and, ultimately, love.

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