“I did everything they said, that was going to make me happy, I built a career, I got my own place, I went on solo trips, like a pro, the best hotels, flying business, you name it, the works. And I stayed independent. But no one told me, how lonely I’m going to be, on those trips. Being successful looks really good on the outside, and I’m proud in all of my accomplishments, but it is very lonely, I feel very lonely, all the time. Success doesn’t check in on you when you are spiraling at home, doesn’t check in with you when you are having a bad day. Don’t get me wrong, being strong got me very far in my career and I’m very proud of everything that I’ve done, but. I’m done pretending that I’m okay. Because I’m not”.
These are the words of a woman in her thirties who recently published a TikTok confession, echoing the unspoken misery of a generation of women around her age. She lived the life of a successful man, a life that a man would have enjoyed and would receive admiration from women for. But it is difficult to assign free, informed choice to this path she took, when her opening words are, “I did everything they said”, meaning she followed instructions, that led to a life that she portrays not as an individual voyage through personal dilemmas, but as a stereotype – “the works”. That is, she followed instructions provided not specifically to her, but to every woman like her who watches her, and hence knows what “the works” refers to. And indeed, she and the women she is addressing in her confession, did not end up in the situation they are in by informed choice, they were tracked into that stereotypical path, without those instructing them providing them with an opportunity for an informed choice. The ones who tracked them are familiar to them and to all of us.
For sixty years now, feminists have been trying to believe that women are men with wombs. They rejected the idea that all of history is not some “oppression of women”, but simply a spontaneous result of innate differences between the sexes that always caused women to prefer doing other things than what men preferred doing, and that only this caused history to have more, for example, male leaders, novelists, scientists, philosophers, and not any deliberate “oppression” by some male conspiracy – “the patriarchy”. With a conspiracy theory in mind, about “thousands of years of oppression”, feminists did just that – oppression. They intentionally oppressed women’s inner inclinations, and intentionally sabotaged men’s aspirations by DEI and quotas installed to discriminate against the best candidate for being male, to reach “50% women” and then a large female majority in hundreds of domains, excluding men from human life and forcing women to be men instead of the ousted sex.
The woman cited at the beginning of this text, and millions like her, lived the life of a successful man, only to realize that feminists were wrong, and women, are not men, and do not typically receive the same satisfaction from living the life of a successful man, other than from the too-deliberate too-self-conscious self-patting on the back “for being here, doing this”, and not without the bitter taste of spite.
This has continued for decades, and as far as feminists and those who follow them were concerned, it could and should last for eternity. But a disaster has been unfolding over the last two-to-three decades, when these feminist beliefs transformed from fringe into a mandatory, enforced mainstream. Men who do not live their lives, they were expelled despite having a talent, for being male. Women who live a life they feel a stranger in. Men not realizing themselves, and as a result women who are not finding men they can think of as husbands, both remaining separated, loveless, alone, unfulfilled, as alive as ghosts could be, and without a possibility of correcting anything, because everything is too late, too widespread, too solidified, feminists having too much power in academia and media for criticism and monitoring to be allowed – in literature, sociology, psychology, the media, art, pop-culture – possibly one half of two generations of men and women – lost, destined to dying alone and miserable after not living. Tens of millions of tortured souls, by feminism.
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